{"id":2269,"date":"2022-11-12T17:40:35","date_gmt":"2022-11-12T17:40:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.eatinglove.org\/blog\/?p=2269"},"modified":"2022-11-12T22:55:49","modified_gmt":"2022-11-12T22:55:49","slug":"beating-yourself-up","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.eatinglove.org\/blog\/beating-yourself-up\/","title":{"rendered":"Beating Yourself up over Emotional Eating"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_2270\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-2270\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-2270\" src=\"https:\/\/www.eatinglove.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/beatingyourselfup-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"Emotional Eating Metaphor for Beating oneself up\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.eatinglove.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/beatingyourselfup-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.eatinglove.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/beatingyourselfup-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.eatinglove.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/beatingyourselfup.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-2270\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Beating Yourself up Emotionally<\/p><\/div>\n<p>It&#8217;s mainly a distraction.<\/p>\n<p>It can be healthy for a few minutes to help bring attention to your issue, and to ignite a fire underneath you in order to take action.<\/p>\n<p>But anymore than that and you are doing it to distract yourself from the problem.<\/p>\n<p>1- <strong>You are overwhelmed<\/strong> (and maybe unaware of ) by the powerful emotions that underlay your emotional eating and so feel helpless.<\/p>\n<p>2- <strong>Resentment<\/strong>; You don&#8217;t want to give up your eating.<\/p>\n<p>3- You don&#8217;t want to<strong> face the underlying loneliness<\/strong>, <strong>anxiety and emotional mess<\/strong> that is underneath. It&#8217;s painful.<\/p>\n<p>So you distract by beating yourself up, by justifying it, by admitting it even (to pretend that admitting it is actually doing something productive).<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s all okay though. Everyone does this.<\/p>\n<p>You simply need to manage and start to taking control of it, which you can do by reading the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.eatinglove.org\/\"><strong>main page<\/strong><\/a> of this blog.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; EatingLove<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Check out, why it&#8217;s <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.eatinglove.org\/blog\/why-its-okay-to-drink-milk-on-a-diet\/\">okay to drink milk on a diet<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s mainly a distraction. It can be healthy for a few minutes to help bring attention to your issue, and to ignite a fire underneath you in order to take action. But anymore than that and you are doing it to distract yourself from the problem. 1- You are overwhelmed (and maybe unaware of ) by the powerful emotions that underlay your emotional eating and so feel helpless. 2- Resentment; You don&#8217;t want to give up your eating. 3- You don&#8217;t want to face the underlying loneliness, anxiety and emotional mess that is underneath. It&#8217;s painful. So you distract by <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2270,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[3],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.eatinglove.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2269"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.eatinglove.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.eatinglove.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.eatinglove.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.eatinglove.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2269"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.eatinglove.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2269\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2274,"href":"https:\/\/www.eatinglove.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2269\/revisions\/2274"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.eatinglove.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2270"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.eatinglove.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2269"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.eatinglove.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2269"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.eatinglove.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2269"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}